{"id":236,"date":"2020-09-28T09:23:50","date_gmt":"2020-09-28T09:23:50","guid":{"rendered":""},"modified":"2022-06-17T14:37:12","modified_gmt":"2022-06-17T07:37:12","slug":"dan-ong-co-the-ngheo-nhung-tuyet-doi-khong-duoc-nhan","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jobtest.vn\/hrblog\/dan-ong-co-the-ngheo-nhung-tuyet-doi-khong-duoc-nhan","title":{"rendered":"\u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng – c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ngh\u00e8o nh\u01b0ng tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u00e0n"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng nghe “20 tu\u1ed5i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ti\u1ec1n l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng; 30 tu\u1ed5i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ti\u1ec1n, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 do ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh gia \u0111\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t, c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n; \u0111\u1ebfn 40 tu\u1ed5i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ti\u1ec1n, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n”.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u00fang v\u1eady, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi ngo\u00e0i 20, t\u1ea1i sao l\u1ea1i ph\u1ea3i ch\u00e1n gh\u00e9t ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh khi v\u1eabn ngh\u00e8o?<\/p>\n

Ngo\u00e0i 20, ngh\u00e8o kh\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t d\u1ea1ng tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i, \u0111\u1ea1i \u0111a s\u1ed1 thanh ni\u00ean \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111ang ngh\u00e8o, tr\u1eeb m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u201cn\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng\u201d \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n c\u00f3 s\u1eb5n, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5 v\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n

\"dan-ong-co-the-ngheo-nhung-tuyet-doi-khong-duoc-nhan\"<\/p>\n

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Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00e2y th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00ea c\u01b0\u1eddi, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n cam ch\u1ecbu ngh\u00e8o kh\u1ed5.<\/strong><\/p>\n

T\u00f4i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ti\u1ec1n b\u1ed1i l\u00e0m kinh doanh, anh t\u1eebng k\u1ec3 v\u1ec1 qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 khi c\u00f2n tr\u1ebb c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/strong><\/p>\n

T\u1eeb nh\u1ecf t\u00ednh t\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 ngh\u1ecbch ng\u1ee3m, \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ea5p hai th\u00ec b\u1ecf h\u1ecdc, v\u00e0o l\u00e0m c\u00f4ng nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9ng chuy\u1ec1n c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 m\u00e1y s\u1ea3n xu\u1ea5t, anh \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y “v\u1eeba m\u1ec7t v\u1eeba nh\u00e0n”.<\/p>\n

M\u1ec7t v\u00e0 nh\u00e0n l\u00e0 hai t\u1eeb ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n tr\u00e1i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c nhau v\u1ec1 \u00fd ngh\u0129a, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0m t\u00f4i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 kh\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u, t\u1ea1i sao l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f9ng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i?<\/p>\n

Anh n\u00f3i m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ee9ng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c 12h \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3, x\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0o m\u00f9a h\u00e8 n\u00f3ng h\u1eebng h\u1ef1c 40 \u0111\u1ed9, qu\u1ea1t d\u00f9 c\u00f3 b\u1eadt li\u00ean t\u1ee5c th\u00ec th\u1ed5i ra \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 gi\u00f3 n\u00f3ng, c\u1ea3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi sao c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng m\u1ec7t?<\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0ng 1 n\u0103m 365 ng\u00e0y, m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00e1c \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n \u0111\u00f3, kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n d\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ea7u \u00f3c suy ngh\u0129, ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c mang t\u00ednh m\u00e1y m\u00f3c nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e1y, \u0111\u1ea7u \u00f3c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng \u201cnh\u00e0n\u201d sao?<\/p>\n

Anh l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1eeda n\u0103m, cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng anh nh\u1eadn ra n\u1ebfu c\u00f2n ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c, b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n s\u1ebd bi\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i m\u00e1y kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft suy ngh\u0129, li\u1ec1n ngh\u1ec9 vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i h\u1ecdc ngh\u1ec1.<\/p>\n

M\u1ec7t v\u00e0 nh\u00e0n\u00a0c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi c\u00f9ng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i, m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea3 ng\u00e0y b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n, c\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e0n ru\u1ed3i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 linh h\u1ed3n, c\u1ea3 ng\u00e0y vo ve kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng, n\u00e1o \u0111\u1ed9ng \u1ed3n \u00e0o kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng, nh\u01b0ng ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u00e2m thanh v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c. Nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ea7u \u00f3c suy ngh\u0129, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng g\u00ec.<\/p>\n

C\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 v\u1ecb ti\u1ec1n b\u1ed1i \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, anh t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc m\u00e1y bi\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi, b\u1edfi v\u00ec anh \u0111\u00e3 suy ngh\u0129.<\/strong><\/p>\n

C\u00f3 bao nhi\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb, su\u1ed1t ng\u00e0y k\u00eau ngh\u00e8o k\u1ec3 kh\u1ed5, nh\u01b0ng m\u1eb7t kh\u00e1c l\u1ea1i ch\u1ec9 th\u00edch n\u1eb1m tr\u00ean sofa ch\u01a1i \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c.<\/p>\n

Trong phim “T\u00f4i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi qua \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng” c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111o\u1ea1n tho\u1ea1i: “B\u1ea1n gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3, ch\u1ebft \u1edf \u0111\u00f3, \u0111i h\u1ecdc kh\u00f4ng n\u1ed5i, \u0103n c\u01a1m kh\u00f4ng n\u1ed5i, kh\u00f4ng k\u1ebft h\u00f4n n\u1ed5i, kh\u00f4ng mua n\u1ed5i nh\u00e0, nu\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng n\u1ed5i b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i.<\/p>\n

M\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c, th\u00ec ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ch\u1eb3ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec c\u1ea3, \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c mong s\u1ed1ng \u1edf m\u1ed9t n\u01a1i t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1ebf, th\u1ebf th\u00ec th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ebft r\u1ed3i bi\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng?”<\/p>\n

Nh\u00e0n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y nghi\u1ec7n, hay n\u00f3i c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c l\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y nghi\u1ec7n. Quen v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c tr\u1ed1n tr\u00e1nh, m\u00e3i m\u00e3i ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi k\u00e9m c\u1ecfi.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"dan-ong-co-the-ngheo-nhung-tuyet-doi-khong-duoc-nhan-1\"<\/p>\n

Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi khi \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i ngo\u00e0i \u0111\u00f4i m\u01b0\u01a1i, r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 l\u1ea1c l\u1ed1i, b\u1edfi v\u00ec ngh\u0129 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u, nh\u01b0ng n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c l\u1ea1i qu\u00e1 \u00edt.<\/p>\n

Th\u1ebf l\u00e0 l\u1ea1c l\u1ed1i l\u1ea1i c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh c\u00e1i c\u1edb \u0111\u1ec3 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ed1n ch\u1ea1y hi\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u1ea5y l\u00ed do tu\u1ed5i t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n cho s\u1ef1 l\u1ea1c l\u1ed1i, hi v\u1ecdng n\u00f3 s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 m\u1ea5t d\u1ea7n \u0111i c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi n\u0103m th\u00e1ng v\u00e0 tu\u1ed5i t\u00e1c<\/p>\n

V\u1eady th\u00ec \u0111\u1eebng n\u00f3i h\u01a1n 20 tu\u1ed5i, m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ebfn 30, 40 tu\u1ed5i b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn c\u1ee9 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c l\u1ea1c l\u1ed1i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1u g\u00ec.<\/p>\n

L\u1ea1c l\u1ed1i s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd t\u1ef1 m\u1ea5t \u0111i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang trong m\u00ea cung, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng th\u1eed nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n nh\u1eefng l\u1ed1i \u0111i kh\u00e1c nhau, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd m\u00e3i “nh\u00e0n” \u1edf n\u01a1i \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ea7n \u0111i \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00f2ng, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ebfn thi\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t b\u01b0\u1edbc c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, ngo\u00e0i b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh ra, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi hay v\u1eadt n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1ea5y \u0111i s\u1ef1 l\u1ea1c l\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/strong><\/p>\n

T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 vi\u1ec7c ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0m, n\u00ean ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00e0 l\u00e0m ngay, b\u1edfi v\u00ec suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd thay \u0111\u1ed5i, c\u00f3 bao nhi\u00eau mi\u1ec7ng l\u01b0\u1ee1i thi\u00ean h\u1ea1, bao nhi\u00eau \u0111i\u1ec1u ngo\u00e0i \u00fd mu\u1ed1n th\u00ec s\u1ebd c\u00f3 b\u1ea5y nhi\u00eau do d\u1ef1, b\u1ea5y nhi\u00eau tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n.<\/p>\n

T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng mong mu\u1ed1n, do d\u1ef1, tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n \u0111\u1ec1u s\u1ebd l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n l\u1ea1c l\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

Ngo\u00e0i 20 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 giai \u0111o\u1ea1n n\u00e2ng cao gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng. \u0110\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3 l\u00e3ng ph\u00ed trong l\u1ea1c l\u1ed1i, trong v\u00f2ng xo\u00e1y t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm th\u1ee9 m\u00ecnh th\u00edch.<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y: B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c \u0111i t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u1eefa, m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 \u0111i y\u00eau h\u1ebft m\u00ecnh; b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n kh\u00e1t v\u1ecdng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng n\u1eefa, m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 \u0111i th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n, khi \u0111\u00f3 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1edbi th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u.<\/p>\n

Kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9 r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1eaft k\u1ecbp v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y. L\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u00e0n, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ea7u \u00f3c tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean nh\u00e0n!<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Nh\u00e0n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y nghi\u1ec7n, hay n\u00f3i c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c l\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y nghi\u1ec7n. Quen v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c tr\u1ed1n tr\u00e1nh, m\u00e3i m\u00e3i ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi k\u00e9m c\u1ecfi.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3252,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-236","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-cong-dong"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/jobtest.vn\/hrblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/236","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/jobtest.vn\/hrblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/jobtest.vn\/hrblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jobtest.vn\/hrblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jobtest.vn\/hrblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=236"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/jobtest.vn\/hrblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/236\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3254,"href":"https:\/\/jobtest.vn\/hrblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/236\/revisions\/3254"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jobtest.vn\/hrblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3252"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/jobtest.vn\/hrblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=236"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jobtest.vn\/hrblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=236"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jobtest.vn\/hrblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=236"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}